Which side are you?

Ill start the topic then..
when i was 8 years old my mother and father separated. i stopped studying for 4 years after that. i went to lots of life experiences, specially working too young, i tried to gamble, sell fruits etc.. due to life's situation, i suggested to my mother to go to province, and she said yes. when everything's going smoothly. i went to my dad for a vacation. now he reveals the secret of their separation(my mom).
my dad says that all d money he sends here( he's working at brunei b4) were spend by my mother for some cult or gold thing theory. actually he does proof that my mother withdraw lots of money..
my mother told me that he separated my father because my father had lots of chikaz! and 1 girl went to our house pregnant saying that its my father's baby. well im too young for that to know i think im less than 7 years old so i didnt recognize it well.. now if ur in my situation,, which side are you?

Honestly?
Neither.

Your mother is your mother. Your father is your father. Nobody can change that.
You shouldn't have to pick sides, you shouldn't be in the middle.
You should be standing up telling them to put their differences aside and stop bickering. Because their child, you, needs his parents.

Nicely said Scotty

well they cant be together. i stand on my own now though. they hate each other like hell.

People love. People hate.
That's life for you.

You should put all their differences aside and be with them BOTH. Just because they hate each other doesn't mean you have to disown one of them. You are their child, they love you. Imagine how you would feel if your child disowned you.

fo sur stay with them and keep encouraging them
you never know what can happen

u know what i did? im at d middle. when im with my mom im giving her my whole attention, and when im with my dad im giving him my attentions too. why? coz when im with my mom she tells everyday about how bad my dad was. also my father's like that. thanks guys.
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